THE PLAYBOY DIARY
Updated: Jan 1, 2022
DISCLAIMER
*I would like to start this writing by bringing to your attention that this topic is something I feel very comfortable speaking about, as I used to live this specific lifestyle. However, it is no longer a part of my current way of living.
THE THEORY:
There is a lifestyle out there that many men in today’s day in age seem to chase. Most men live this theory without self-guidance, causing men as a whole to be shamed and misperceived.
However, within the idiocracy that is the male species, there are individuals whose intentions are pure. They understand their desires and are able to watch over their behaviors, self-reflecting in a way that allows them to continue living a life that they should not be shamed for.
A Playboy Diary is a simple, yet easily misconstrued supposition. It is a belief based on the thought that an individual man should be able to chase his desires of solely sensual love, with one woman or multiple women, confidently and without judgment; as long as his desires are pursued in a courteous way.
A CLEAR UNDERSTANDING
There is a solid line to be drawn between a Playboy and a piece of shit who wants to fuck everything in sight. That difference can be spotted based on whether or not a man is able to come to a clear understanding of what his specific desires are(which most people in general, men and women, do not seem to take the time to do in today’s world).
Are the intentions of a Playboy to fulfill his sexual fantasies in a way that avoids lies, cheating, and sneaky behavior? Does he have an approach that allows him to do so?
Or are his intentions to fuck a ton of women all the time? Despite the feelings and emotions of each individual caught in that interaction? Sadly, the number of men who choose to live this way, makes it difficult for an honest man to be perceived as such.
A PROPER APPROACH
A man that portrays a proper approach is a lot easier to notice than you may think, as he tends to do so with pure honesty and total respect.
He does not pressure, he does not insult, and he does not leave any other negative impact on the women he crosses paths with.
He simply approaches an individual with acceptance of the possibility of being turned down. As that man understands that there is a large variety of women who do not share similar desires.
However, even though having a proper approach may keep a smooth flow of one’s sensual livelihood, it is important to understand that even with the purest intentions, this lifestyle is one that can easily manipulate an individual negatively.
THE DIFFERENCE
There are men in this world who have used their time and energy to properly understand their intentions, in order to acquire their desires honestly and respectfully. As a society, do we truly believe those distinct individuals deserve to be shamed?
In the shoes of an innocent woman… would you prefer for a man to waste your time, energy, and emotion? Or would you rather that man have taken it beyond himself, to come clear with his intentions and relay those intentions to you in a way that does not leave you confused, insulted, or mentally distressed?
A Playboy does not aim to negatively impact your time or wellbeing, he simply has respect for both. He understands that you are not a “piece of ass,” you are a being and you deserve to be given honesty of our intentions.
An immature man will lie to you. A piece of shit will leave you confused. An asshole will show disrespect. All while a fuckboy refuses to see the negative impact he is leaving on any part of your life. Either that, or he will notice the impact, yet continue living a life of greed.
A Playboy should not be shamed based on his honest desires, for he should be held accountable based on his approach.
SELF-REFLECTION
To the women whom I have personally negatively affected due to my wrongdoings when living this lifestyle, I apologize. I apologize for the love and trust that I once abused over and over again. I apologize for the precious time and energy I wasted as well as the dishonesty I portrayed. I should have taken it upon myself at the time to understand my desires, rather than live a life full of immaturity.
To the men who currently abide by these specific beliefs, I would like to bring to your attention the important details to consider in which I personally was not aware of at the time…
If you have ever intentionally lied to a woman, cheated, abused her love, used her heart and/or mind for your selfish pleasure, dehumanized, manipulated, or hurt in any other way… you deserve to be sorry. In addition, I personally think it is vital that you reconsider your morals as a whole.
However! As a human race, I’m sure we are able to come to an agreeance that the truth may hurt sometimes. If an individual is shaming you for your honesty, and the reasoning behind your honesty is based on nothing less than complete and total respect for that person’s well-being… feel free to apologize later.
To claim that choosing to live a certain way is “wrong” is an absurd and closed-minded statement; as people, we obtain the choice to be “good” or “bad” within any given situation. Therefore, there should be no judgment against a man who is simply chasing his desires and doing his personal best to do so in a “good” way, as long as his approach, as well as his intentions, are pure (Feel free to check that man at any given moment).
YOUR REFLECTION
All the men who are in agreeance of these thoughts I have displayed, I ask you… Do your personal actions reflect this Playboy Diary? Or are you too ignorant to self-reflect upon your own behavior?
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